Okay, so I now understand how it is that the poor love struck girl is too struck to even realize that she’s struck! I can’t explain much but usually, she has great friends and people who love her who gives her good advice but she doesn’t take it because she is too blinded by her feelings! The girl in question knows deep inside that everything will go wrong with the relationship but she struggles to keep it going because she is too afraid to let go; meaning that she doesn’t want to live a barren existence and realize in the end that the guy in question is her soul mate. It isn’t true in all cases, of course, the girl in question is experiencing what I call faux-love where she falls hard for a guy in question believing it is the real thing but the truth is that it never is! It’s just a misconception that leads to heart aches on both parties concerned. The catalyst in this type of faux love is the level of maturity. It just explains everything…the commitment factor, the my-friends-have-to-go-first-since-they’ve-been-with-me-longer-than-you drama, the influx of insecurity due to lack of proofs of undying love an devotion and in summation, BS. Because there was never any real love to speak of in the first place, it’s all a mirage created by the thirst for something meaningful in a teenager’s life, to create a production influenced by the numerous masterpieces of love-lost-and-then-found scenarios created by the media to entice and then fool teenagers into thinking that love in times of adolescent uncertainty will solve such matters, when in fact, it will only make things worse for all the parties involved.
A good question to ask all the girls in question out there is:
Do you love him or do you love the idea of him?
